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Often, it is especially the things that didn’t go well that stick with us. Our attention almost automatically focuses on what was exhausting, incomplete, or negative. This exercise helps you to perceive your day more consciously and more fully — without sugarcoating anything, but also without overlooking what matters.
This exercise takes about 10 minutes and is especially suitable at the end of a completely ordinary day. Take a quiet moment, preferably without distractions.
Step 1 – First thoughts (approx. 3 minutes)
Briefly close your eyes and mentally go through your day — from waking up until now. Then open your eyes and write down everything that comes to mind spontaneously.
- without organizing
- without judging
- without changing anything
It can be chaotic or even negatively colored. If you get stuck, ask yourself:
“What stood out to me the most today?”
Step 2 – Counter list (approx. 3 minutes)
Now deliberately direct your attention in a different direction.
Write down:
What was okay today?
What did you accomplish — even small things?
What worked?
These can be very simple things. The ordinary is completely enough.
Then briefly compare:
How do the two lists differ?
Which one feels more present?
Step 3 – A moment that stays (approx. 4 minutes)
Choose one point from your second list.
Read it slowly twice
Briefly close your eyes
Recall the situation: Where were you? What did you notice?
Stay with this moment for about 15–20 seconds — without judging it or thinking further.
Final reflection question
When you compare your spontaneous image of the day with your second list:
How close do these two perspectives come?
And what would change if you gave the things from the second list as much weight as your initial thoughts?



